People who take criticism positively are true winners

We nowadays are becoming more and more intolerant. We do not easily try to accept others views or even give a damn to it until and unless it is favorable to us.We often loose our temper and don’t even try to listen to our mistakes which we might have done knowing or unknowingly. These things are taking us away from the golden opportunity of rectifying our mistakes. We often make mistakes in our social and professional life because it’s human to err. A sensible person listens to his criticism peacefully and without losing his cool. This provides him the opportunity to mend his ways from the wrong path and prevent him from misdeeds.It’s a very old and golden view that people who can accept his criticism is the true winner in this world and has the potential to achieve his desired goal. Goswami Tulsidas in his Ram Charitramanas has advised to keep in touch with your criticizer. A true criticizer is more worthy than a friend who don’t even bother to caution you whenever you are wrong. In ancient times the pupil friendly kings used to visit their kingdom to gather public opinion because the courtesans sometime may give the untrue picture of their praja or commoner.So you should give ear to the words which are against you. You must digest them with ease and comfort but remember to mend your ways if you are wrong. This will be very helpful to you in your due course of life.In school teachers are one of the best friend as well as our best criticizer. They often scold us and as well encourage us on our good work. But this has to be taken along with the criticism. We must take the positive criticism seriously because this shows us the way not to repeat them in future. We should actually be thankful to our teachers for making us what we are. There role is very important. Parents too have a very important role to play in the child life. They must not give unwanted favor to them or encourage them in their affection. This affection may make them spoilt which will be harmful for them and they might develop some bad habits which will be hazardous for them and their future. They must be harsh on their mistakes and must criticize them if them do something unacceptable. This will help them in their upbringing and grooming.

Students' Oxygen movement view

13/03/2011